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Imposter No More: Embracing Your Inner Corporate Queen ππ
Confessions of a Corporate Girly
π Rise and Shine, Corporate Queens! π
Pop the kettle on and grab your fave mug, because we're diving deep into some real corporate tea this week! βοΈπ₯
Ever had one of those days where your hormones are throwing a bigger tantrum than a toddler denied candy? Or those moments when you're sat in a meeting, secretly wondering if they'll soon discover you're not the genius they think you are? Oh honey, we've been there, done that, and got the stress-induced breakout to prove it! π«π€¦ββοΈ
This edition is all about embracing the chaos of PMT and tackling that sneaky beast called imposter syndrome. Because let's face it, the corporate world isn't just about power suits and PowerPoint slides; it's about navigating the real, raw, and sometimes ridiculous challenges that come our way. πͺοΈπ
So, buckle up, beauties! We're about to embark on a journey of self-discovery, laughter, and a whole lot of "OMG, me too!" moments. Let's get into it! ππ
1. Spilling the Tea: Whatβs Hot Right Now?π₯π
Emotional Coco Gauff storms back to beat Aryna Sabalenka and win 2023 US Open - Young tennis sensation Coco Gauff claims victory at the US Open. (TEL)
Last night of the Proms: Sweltering heat fails to dampen the audience's spirits - The iconic British musical event remains enjoyable despite the heatwave. (BBC)
Withnail and I: How a Beatle-funded comedy about alcoholic actors became a cult classic - A deep dive into the legacy of a beloved film. (IND)
From Joe and Sophie to Britney and Sam: why are so many millennials breaking up right now? - Exploring the recent breakups of high-profile couples and potential reasons behind them. (IND)
'We're sorry': Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis explain why they asked judge for leniency in case of rapist co-star - Hollywood couple addresses recent controversy surrounding their support letter. (SKY)
Sweden brings more books and handwriting practice back to its tech-heavy schools - Sweden's education system reintroduces traditional learning methods amidst tech-heavy curriculums. (IND)
A Haunting in Venice: the murderer in this cod-Agatha Christie whodunnit is... the cinematographer - A film review discussing the plot twists in a new Agatha Christie-inspired movie. (TEL)
Caribbean nations set to demand royal family makes reparations for slave trade - Caribbean countries push for reparations from the British royal family for their role in the slave trade. (GDN)
2. πΊ Riding the Crimson Wave at Work: Let's Talk PMT, Honey! πΊ
Once a month, Mother Nature sends us a gift (and I use that term loosely). It's like a subscription box you never signed up for but can't cancel. Yep, we're talking about Premenstrual Tension (PMT). π¦β
Now, navigating the corporate jungle is challenging enough without adding PMT into the mix. One minute you're nailing that presentation, and the next, you're tearing up because Karen from accounting said your slides were "fine" (just fine, Karen? Really?). π’πΌ
PMT is natural, and it's about time the corporate world got with the program. We're not just dealing with cramps and cravings. Oh no, honey. PMT can bring mood swings, fatigue, and a whole host of other symptoms that can make office life feel like you're in the latest season of "Survivor". π΄π₯
So, how do we ride this crimson wave with grace and keep our professional game strong? ππͺ
Self-awareness is Key: Recognise your symptoms. If you're feeling more irritable or emotional than usual, it might just be PMT playing tricks on you. Take a deep breath, have a piece of chocolate (or two), and carry on. π«β¨
Communication: If you're comfortable, give your close colleagues a heads up. A simple "Hey, I'm not feeling 100% today" can work wonders. They'll likely be more understanding if you need a moment or if you're not up for that after-work drink. π·π«
Self-Care: This isn't just a trendy hashtag; it's essential. Listen to your body. If you need a break, take it. If you need to vent, find a friend. And if you need chocolate, well, you know what to do. π«β€οΈ
Seek Support: Many workplaces now offer wellness programs or flexible working arrangements. If PMT is hitting you hard, consider discussing your options with HR. They might surprise you with their understanding and support. π€πΈ
In conclusion, while PMT can feel like an uninvited guest crashing your corporate party, remember: you're not alone. Every fierce woman in that office has been there, done that, and got the T-shirt. So, let's support each other, lift each other up, and show PMT who's really boss around here. πͺπ
3. Who, Me? Tackling Imposter Syndrome Like the Queen You Are! ππ
Ladies have you ever walked into a meeting, looked around, and thought, "Do I even belong here?" Or maybe you've nailed a presentation, only to think it was just luck? Honey, if you've ever felt like a fraud in your Louboutins, you're not alone. Welcome to the not-so-exclusive club of imposter syndrome. ππ
1. Recognise the Imposter: First things first, let's call out the imposter for what it is - a big, fat liar. You didn't get to where you are by fluke. You've earned it, girl! So, every time that doubt creeps in, remind yourself of your achievements. ππββοΈ
2. Talk It Out: You'd be surprised how many of your colleagues, even the ones who seem to have it all together, feel the same way. Open up about your feelings. Sharing can be therapeutic and can help you realise you're not alone in this. π£οΈβ€οΈ
3. Celebrate the Wins: Big or small, every achievement deserves a celebration. Got positive feedback? Nailed a project? Toot your own horn, darling! ππ₯
4. Seek Mentorship: Having a mentor can be a game-changer. They've been there, done that, and can offer guidance. Plus, just knowing someone believes in you can boost your confidence. ππ©βπ«
5. Remember, Everyone's Wingin' It: Here's a little secret: everyone, at some point, feels out of their depth. Even the CEO has moments of doubt. So, take a deep breath, and remember, we're all just winging it. π€·ββοΈπΌ
In the grand scheme of things, imposter syndrome is just a pesky gatecrasher at the party of your success. Don't give it the power to dim your shine. You're here because you're brilliant, capable, and a force to be reckoned with. So, the next time that imposter rears its ugly head, give it a sassy hair flip and say, "Not today!" ππ«
Stay fierce, stay fabulous, and remember: you belong in every room you enter. πͺπ
4. Our Podcast Spotlight of the Week! π€β
Ever been in that tricky spot where you're itching to voice a different perspective, but there's a little voice in your head saying, "Hold up, what if this backfires?" We've all been there, right? Wanting to challenge a decision or provide a fresh viewpoint, especially when it's directed upwards towards those line managers and senior stakeholders. It's like wanting to strut in your new heels but fearing you might trip. π π€·ββοΈ
Enter the game-changing podcast, "Influence and Impact for Female Leaders" by the ever-insightful Carla Miller. This week, she's serving some real tea on how to challenge upwards without feeling like you're walking on eggshells. π΅π£
Carla dishes out NINE golden strategies to help us corporate ladies navigate those potentially tricky waters. It's all about asserting yourself, making an impact, and still being the team's shining star. Because let's face it, we're in the corporate world to make waves, not just to float! πβ¨
So, if you've ever hesitated to speak up, fearing it might ruffle some feathers, this episode is your new playbook. Learn how to communicate effectively, ensuring your voice is heard, respected, and valued. After all, challenging the status quo is how progress is made, and who better to lead the charge than us fierce corporate women? πͺπ£οΈ
Tune in, soak up that wisdom, and let's transform those boardroom meetings. Remember, it's not about confrontation; it's about constructive communication. And with Carla's tips, you'll be doing it like a pro! π§π
5. Stay Sassy, Stay Classy, Until Next Week! π π
Well, there you have it, queens! From battling those sneaky imposter feelings to navigating the rollercoaster of PMT, we've dished out the real tea on the corporate world's unspoken challenges. π΅π’
Ever felt like an Oscar-winning actress in the boardroom, pretending to have it all together? Or secretly wished for a "PMT Day Off" pass? Honey, you're not alone! ππ΄
But remember, every challenge is just a plot twist in your epic success story. So, wear that crown, adjust your heels, and strut into next week with confidence! π π
Before you sashay away, don't forget to grab your FREE Networking Guide from our webpage. Perfect for those moments when you need to schmooze like a pro and make every connection count! ππ€
Got thoughts, giggles, or grand ideas for our next edition? Slide into our inbox! We're all ears and always here for some sassy chit-chat. Until then, keep shining, keep thriving, and most importantly, keep being your fabulous self! ππ
Catch you on the next wave of corporate realness! ππ’π
XOXO